A guide to style and good tailoring

Hi welcome to my own unique perspective on what constitutes style and individualism. The vast majority of the photos are taken using a mobile phone camera and I have no make up on.......

I'm in my late 30's and I'm also a widow which probably explains why I look so god damn hot in black, well that and being an ivory skinned pale red head! It also documents my wardrobe, so many people seem fascinated by my clothes and compliment me for how I look wearing them.

It is one woman's campaign against Jeans, Tracksuits and Ugg Boots!

More importantly it's about altering your view on life and trying to do the right thing even though it isn't always the easiest.

This blog is a story in taking pride in yourself and not letting yourself go, or settling for second best because you know what girls? No one really is better than someone if they don't treat you like a Queen................

Showing posts with label Tara Starlet. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tara Starlet. Show all posts

Saturday, 6 April 2013

The shorts of sympathy and solidarity

Terry Pratchett hit the nail on the head when he pointed out that someday's the Trouser of Time bifurcate and you unexpectedly shoot off  down the wrong leg. We all have those moments, and that's why we have friends, they arrive armed with the shorts of sympathy and solidarity. 

Life rarely goes to plan, in fact life is what happens whilst we are bust making plans. This doesn't mean we shouldn't have them but it does mean that we have to be flexible and adapt. We have to be willing to let go of the life we planned, to have the life that is waiting for us.

So here's to the genius of shorts, they are fabulous. The red sateen material of these shorts is beautiful, I just love it's bright shine. Teamed with a chiffon blue blouse with cream neck tie trimmed in red this makes a cute 'sailor girl' outfit. 

Shorts: Red Sateen high waist tailored shorts by Pinup girl clothing
Top: By Tara Starlet

  





Wednesday, 6 March 2013

Chaucer,Third time lucky and the red rose

John of Gaunt, the first Duke of Lancaster was born today in 1340. If I wanted to change the history of our nation and if I had a time machine then he would be a prime target.  

John of Gaunt's legitimate male heirs, the Lancasters, included Kings Henry IV, Henry V, and Henry VI. His other legitimate descendants included, by his first wife, Blanche, his daughters Queen Philippa of Portugal and Elizabeth, Duchess of Exeter; and by his second wife, Constance, his daughter Queen Catherine of Castile. 

John fathered five children outside marriage, one early in life by a lady-in-waiting to his mother, and four surnamed "Beaufort" (after a former French possession of the Duke) by Katherine Swynford, Gaunt's long-term mistress and third wife. The Beaufort children, three sons and a daughter, were legitimised by royal and papal decrees after John and Katherine married in 1396; a later proviso that they were specifically barred from inheriting the throne, the phrase excepta regali dignitate (English: not eligible for the royal dignity), was inserted with dubious authority by their half-brother Henry IV. 

Descendants of this marriage included Henry Beaufort, Bishop of Winchester and eventually Cardinal, the man who presided over the trial of Joan of Arc; Joan Beaufort, Countess of Westmorland, grandmother of Kings Edward IV and Richard III; John Beaufort, 1st Earl of Somerset, the great-grandfather of King Henry VII; and Joan Beaufort, Queen of Scots, from whom are descended, beginning in 1437, all subsequent sovereigns of Scotland, and successively, from 1603 on, the sovereigns of England, of Great Britain and Ireland, and of the United Kingdom to the present day. The three succeeding houses of English sovereigns from 1399 — the Houses of Lancaster, York and Tudor — were descended from John through Henry Bolingbroke, Joan Beaufort and John Beaufort, respectively.

He was also a patron of Geoffrey Chaucer, who was also his brother in law, he married Phillipa de Roet, the sister of John's 3rd wife Katherine. His influence on literature didn't end there either. In William Shakespeare's play Richard II, the famous England speech is spoken by the character of John of Gaunt as he lies on his deathbed.

It was through the book "Katherine" by Anya Seaton that I discovered this interesting time and character in history. It was a very compelling story covering Watt Tyler and the Peasant's Revolt as well as the human side to the relationship.

Lancashire is the Red Rose County, so I wanted to wear a red dress today to represent the colour of the rose. I also wanted to couple it with something that had just a dash of "this sceptre'd isle".

I think this dress is bright and cheerful whilst also maintaining a balance of fun and style. It is a 1940s style dress with slight puff top sleeves, buttons to the waist and a nicely fitted skirt. It is however the accents that make this dress, I just love the Union Jack trim! Who wouldn't? This is one of my "reclaim the union Jack from Ginger Spice" dresses. It also has a highly appropriate name!

Dress: Belted Vixen Dress With Cuffs in Union Jack by Tara Starlet
Shoes: Aldo










"England"


This royal throne of kings, this scepter'd isle,
This earth of majesty, this seat of Mars,
This other Eden, demi-paradise,
This fortress built by Nature for herself
Against infection and the hand of war,
This happy breed of men, this little world,
This precious stone set in the silver sea,
Which serves it in the office of a wall,
Or as a moat defensive to a house,
Against the envy of less happier lands,
This blessed plot, this earth, this realm, this England,
This nurse, this teeming womb of royal kings,
Fear'd by their breed and famous by their birth
Renowned for their deeds as far from home,
For Christian service and true chivalry,
As is the sepulchre in stubborn Jewry,
Of the world's ransom, blessed Mary's Son,
This land of such dear souls, this dear dear land,
Dear for her reputation through the world,
Is now leased out, I die pronouncing it,
Like to a tenement or pelting farm:
England, bound in with the triumphant sea
Whose rocky shore beats back the envious siege
Of watery Neptune, is now bound in with shame,
With inky blots and rotten parchment bonds:
That England, that was wont to conquer others,
Hath made a shameful conquest of itself.
Ah, would the scandal vanish with my life,
How happy then were my ensuing death!

—Act II, scene i, 42–54, The Tragedy of King Richard II




Tuesday, 22 January 2013

Bonus Blog: If you are going to watch Zulu

You might as well dress for the occasion. This top is part of my campaign to reclaim the Union Jack from Ginger Spice.......It will take time, but it can be done! I'm leaving reclaiming Leopard prints from Bett Lynch until I am 50! It's all about picking your battles!

Pte. Thomas Cole: Why is it us? Why us?
Colour Sergeant Bourne: Because we're here, lad. Nobody else. Just us.

I must say Olive military shorts are a pain to find a top that goes with it, the shoes were a quest too, anyway I think the Tara Starlet Bustier works well for those moments of "Team GB" which happen to the best of us.

As you can tell, I think this outfit is fun. It makes me smile! Not to mention laugh, if only because at 37 and 5/6s (which rounds to 38) you should probably have more sense than to wear shorts and a bustier top in the middle of winter.

I felt the need to cheer myself up, the news today upset me talking about suicide. So when the world gets you down, dress up and dance around the house you feel happy in no time :)



Colour Sergeant Bourne: It's a miracle. 
Lieutenant John Chard: If it's a miracle, Colour Sergeant, it's a short chamber Boxer Henry point 45 caliber miracle. 
Colour Sergeant Bourne: And a bayonet, sir, with some guts behind. 


Shorts: Military Style Daisy Dukes by Pin up girl clothing
Top: The Blitz Bustier by Tara Starlet



No really try it films are so
much more fun when you dress
up for them!








Men of Harlech

Friday, 11 January 2013

My Niece, Grease and Candlebras

WOO HOO! My Niece has asked me to be her Bridesmaid, how lovely is that :) I am over the moon, it's awesome. My Niece was my Chief Bridesmaid when I got married so I am touched that I get to be her Matron of Honour. It will be great I can't wait to go and watch her trying on all the dresses, and doing the jumping up and down clapping and giggling thing that I do when I get over excited. LOL (Eyes in the sky monkey with cymbals meets a pogo stick).

She has also asked if I will dance to the zephyr with a shamadan (candlebra balanced on your head) at her wedding. I thought balancing a sword was hard! I take my role as the eccentric Aunt seriously.

Anyway to celebrate I watched Grease which put me in the mood for the good girl side of Sandra Dee. I love this as a take on a college/picnic dress. It is grown up girlie girl dress. I like the white collar with the black tie ribbon at the high neck, but it is the V pleat at the front of the skirt that really adds the interest. The tailoring of the check print to accentuate the pleat is very well executed.

This dress just makes me smile! I can sense a carpet picnic happening this evening.

Dress: The Picnic Dress by Tara Starlet
Bolero: White pointelle pin up girl clothing
Shoes: Schuh



















Friday, 28 December 2012

It isn't what you wear, it's how you wear it!

I was raised to the mantra it isn't what you wear it is how you wear it! People say it is easy to look nice in pretty dresses. 

The question is, does the woman make the clothes? Or do the clothes make the woman? With the brazen confidence that only a red head can show, here I am in my raincoat :)

It's a 1940's WW2 utility style raincoat with huge pockets, a fabric belt and enough buttons to give Cadbury's a run for their money. The colour is a beautiful deep British racing green.

I really don't mind what other people wear as long as they feel good when they wear it, and that is the essence of it. It is about being yourself and accepting people as they are, it is also about not making assumptions based on people's appearance.

It is about trying to think the best of people and not judging them or jumping to conclusions. It is just about letting people be themselves :) and accepting them as they are. How many people make decisions based on fear? They decide they will not get to know someone in case they are rejected, so they reject the other person first. Who wants a life lived in fear?


If your inner beauty and personality radiates in your smile and twinkles in your eye then you can do anything, let alone wear absolutely anything!

God damn I make a raincoat look mighty fine ;) ........ 


Coat: Tara Starlet Forties Coat in Bottle Green
Shoes: Aldo





“Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it.”
—Yves Saint Laurent





Photos: Marvellous Marv the Hardware Hippo and Best Friend in the Universe 



Seeing as I am dressed for it.............There really is only one song that I could choose


It's Raining Men

Merv and Marv Dance Anthem!


God bless Mother Nature she's a single woman too ;)


Friday, 14 December 2012

Universal constants of Friday

There are several universal constant of a Friday - the first is listening to Friday I'm in Love by The Cure on the way to work, the second is having a crunchie and the 3rd and most important is......It's Capri Pant Day!!!! YAY

Here I am rocking my Stop Staring 3/4 length Capri Pants with my Tara Starlet Cosy Cape. I love this cape, it is so cute and has an air of super hero. I am Batfink with wings of steel or is it Florence Nightingale. Anyway I am pretty convinced we would all be happier if we wore capes. The downside is skinny legs and a triangle.....I look like the stick people kids draw! LOL

Cape: Cosy Cape by Tara Starlet
Capri Pants: 3/4 length by Stop Staring!
Shoes: Court by Hobbs




No Makeup